The Leo Birthday Horoscope 2021-2022

Happy Birthday Leo. What does the upcoming year have in store for you?

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38 Responses

  1. Hi Jessica! Thanks for the Leo birthday horoscope! I’ve been single forever. I was wondering what my chart indicates for love.

    1. Your best chances in 12 years for finding a new lover who is a marvellous combination of ‘challenge and solution’ are here. In fact, between now and Christmas you will be given an opportunity with someone who tests you, but rewards you. It’s rather like taking on a very demanding course or qualification but finding that if you persist, you get all sorts of naturally lucky benefits. The person comes with benefits, you might say. I won’t kid you and say 2022 is a walk in the park, after that. If you do decide to take up this date, and you are still together at Christmas, then next year is really hard work. Yet, if you stay the course until 2023 and beyond, you two could become a power couple. If you have been single for a long time, you may want to steer yourself back to that before you state, aloud, to the mirror, what you want and who you want (and need). Be really clear. Why do you tell the mirror? Because you tell your subconscious mind, which runs a lot of your life for you. Also – do ask family or friends in spirit to help you. Once you’re so focussed on really wanting a date, or a lover, or a marriage (or whatever) do convey it very clearly to the spirit world who can often expedite arrangements.

  2. Hi Jessica, thanks for your detailed Leo year ahead insights! The ‘duet or duel’ comments resonate with me – I have ongoing marriage difficulties that I can’t see an end to. Am I going to be stuck between a rock and a hard place for much longer?

    1. No, you will resolve the marriage difficulties by Christmas at the very latest. In fact, if you have to part (and sort out the house, apartment, possessions or money) as an astrologer you’d do it August-December and then bank on a really welcome financial outcome from Boxing Day into 2022, with a peak moment in April. That sounds awfully cut and dried and practical, but sometimes you just need to know when to go. You don’t say if you have children or not, but if you do, your life as a parent will be your winning card. Your chart suggests you benefit from parenting, being a godparent, aunt, perhaps a teacher/mentor to younger people. It’s a lifetime blessing. And no matter what happens, it is always when you are ‘Queen to a younger court’ or heirs to your throne, or pretenders to your throne, that you find the luck in life. The free key to the door marked Opportunity. Bear that in mind as a nice place to lean, on an emotional and personal level, as you navigate the end of the marriage.

  3. Hi Jessica, a astrologist told me that my relationship with my wife will be tense in October 2021 and was not very positive. Can you see that in my birth chart factors? We have 2 kids and our family life is pleasant. Thanks a lot,

    1. You are a Sun Pisces who also has a major Libra and Seventh House pattern which (Uranus at 27/Pluto at 6 Libra) can show up as upheaval, revolution, issues about power and control, and new beginnings). None of that is necessarily negative, it just depends on your perspective. The tension suggested was just from transits in Libra, in October, highlighting what you were born with – a tendency to attract rebellion from current or former partners, or even love rivals. There is also a tendency to draw towards you issues about dominance, total control, the need for compromise and so on. You have transiting Pluto square natal Uranus so that tends to put the squeeze on. The whole point of astrology and Tarot, actually, is to fix issues, though. Just being aware of the nature of Libra can help. So if you imagine a set of scales or a see-saw with your wife, and the two children swapping sides, from time to time, you will see the mechanics of the marriage. Balancing the scales perfectly is impossible because it doesn’t take an awful lot to tilt them, but you would not be satisfied with anything less than the satisfying, demanding work of making things sit, or settle. It’s rather like being on a tightrope as a trapeze artist in high winds, making it work with the other person even when people doubt it you can do it. I do think you and your wife will have some tightrope walks to complete, but not in October. From May 2022 when Jupiter in Aries slowly begins to move into opposition with Uranus and Pluto in Libra. And yet, what comes out of that, will be a good thing. Whatever you two choose, will work out for you. Jupiter helps.

  4. Hi Jessica!
    Excited for my new Leo year! With Saturn and Uranus making my sun subdued…im hoping for fresh new things! I’ve been mildly depressed (maybe everyone is with covid/lockdown etc) Hoping I can get myself up and moving again 🙂

    Thanks for the birthday article!

    1. Thank you. You have just enough Virgo in your chart, in the Sixth House of health (and mental health) that I think you could get a lot of mileage from August and September. The Virgo weather begins in a major way in August and by September there is a fresh start. This isn’t so much about aspects to your Sun, as the fact that you have a big Virgo statement in your chart, and so you almost need to treat your health as a second job. That can be very hard when you feel mild depression. I am sure you know that COVID-19 has made it difficult for people to get the oxytocin, endorphins, serotonin and dopamine they need for good mental health. You might want to have a look at that, as they show up in the Mind/Body/Spirit loop and that is what Virgo rules. Virgo itself is ruled by Mercury the planet of the mind, you see. In astrology there is a direct link between how one thinks and processes the world, and how one is physically. On a practical note I have had many readers raving about the free hypnosis audiobooks by Paul McKenna, easily the world’s most famous hypnotherapist, at YouTube on his Channel. In fact his health hypnosis actually talks about endorphins directly. You can and will make progress by September and in fact this looks like a fresh start for you. Quite substantial.

  5. Hi Jessica

    Happy birthday in advance to a fellow Leo! May this year bring you lots of peace, abundance and love!

    Can you please tell me what this year will bring for me? I am currently doing freelance consulting ( took your advice to change and not be fixed; have had two offers but nothing compelling ) –
    Consulting is not a lot of money but gets me in the market.

    Do you foresee a proper job in the next few months coming up? I have not been working since 2019 – anxiety etc – now I feel like I am ready.

    Also while you did say I was work in progress with regards to my love life – given Jupiter is around do u foresee a new man soon? I am hoping my ex boyfriend who has kept me stuck in a way ( 5 years now he came in on the august 2016 eclipse which you had rightly predicted at that time that anything I jumped into then would Linger for years). He is born 5 Jan, 1980 – has his AC being conjuncted by Uranus, Venus in Aquarius at 17 degrees & moon in leo at 16 degrees which Saturn will pass over soon.

    . He has just come back again as of last week – but wants to be friends – but flirts – I know so long as he does not feel he needs to label it will work like a relationship with no exclusivity and we live in different cities. U had said recently he would face a difficult few years and since he is not committing to leave it. The thing is I am so drawn to him – is there any advice on how I can handle this. He is very fearful of relationships, Also scared of sex – which goes back to his childhood trauma; but won’t go into therapy. Is there any hope of change here given Uranus is opposing his descendant?

    separately I am with an exclusive dating agency out of London ( live in Bombay) – I plan to reactivate since I want to use this Jupiter cycle to advantage – would this be the better course – I do so want stability, security, comfort & love.

    Please do let me know if this year will be better than the past few – u could do with some good news!

    Thanks in advance!

    1. Happy Birthday. I hope you have a wonderful 12 months ahead, with all that money saved or made, from Christmas 2021 into April 2022. (The Jupiter in Pisces cycle). You are freelance, which is useful, but you could be even more free – in fact – by opening up the options. You have chosen consulting but there are other channels available to you. Have you seen what others are doing, with your skill set and qualifications, and experience? Are you updating yourself? The Uranus in Taurus transit is with you until 2026 but it is very much about experimenting, sometimes quite wildly, rather than just limiting yourself to what you know. You will be shown options in August during the Virgo weather, which passes over your Virgo stellium. The key is serving. ‘To live, to serve’ and doing your duty – working hard, in some detail, even if it is rather routine work – and being of great use to people. You should be pursuing that right now, actually, as there are some terrific trines from Uranus in Taurus and Pluto in Capricorn to your Virgo stellium in the Sixth House of daily work and daily duty. But, as I said, look beyond consulting. Your boyfriend is back in your life, right on time with your horoscope. You are also with a dating agency. I don’t have his details and nor do I have the details of any of the likely lovers at the agency so I suggest you use the Tarot for that. Yes, you will have a terrific opportunity involving love, sex and commitment from August-December. No, it will not be easy. In fact in 2022 it will require tremendous patience. Now, does this sound like your former partner, or someone at the agency? That’s your clue.

  6. Hi Jessica, I want to remodel my house but so far things seem not falling into place. For the next few years, will there be a good time for me to successfully remodel my house ? Thank you.

    1. Yes, you would be stuck on a loop in 2021, as you may find that no matter what you do or say, to try and make things work out differently, you keep getting brick walls (though not remodelled brick walls). Next year is terrific, though. Jupiter (opportunity, expansion, improvement) goes into Pisces at Christmas, making a lovely trine to your Bacchus in Cancer in the Fourth House of property, by 2022. So it’s not too far off. From January the stuck feeling ends, and also the barriers. As you go into 2022, you’ll see how different things look and feel and you’ll enjoy the champagne to toast the new space and place.

  7. Hi Jessica
    Happy birthday to you, too! I have just moved with my wife to foreign country that we lived in about 2 years ago. I was very happy here and surfed everyday. My wife wanted to leave for a number of reasons (mostly financial) but after we returned to our country we realized life was better here. I came here this time and vowed to make it so we would not have to leave for financial reasons again. I have not surged and I have worked very hard 6 days a week for someone I know while also restarting my food business. I have taught my wife (15/07/63 same birthplace as mine 0602am) all the recipes and she is pretty much taking over that aspect. I have been pretty miserable as I do not like my job and have not gotten to surf. I am feeling rundown and pretty grouchy. My wife is happier here than she was last time and doing well with the business. The town has changed tremendously and so has the vibe. It’s not the same place as it was. Could you take a look at my chart and give me some perspective and guidance. Thank you!

    1. Happy Birthday – we can say that to each other in Leo Season. Okay, so your wife is the key to business success and post-Christmas is the time. I am not sure why your food business, or even a second business involving her, is set to take off at that time – perhaps it is seasonal – but by January 2022 you will be looking at amazing opportunities tied to saving or making money, with your marriage. It is also possible that another relative will play a part. If you want to move you will do that after May 2022 when the door will open to relocation or emigration. The surfing is really important; you will be able to rethink your whole lifestyle, daily routine, the 24 hours in every day – soon. In fact by September you will have replaced the old life schedule and diary, so that you can get what you want. Of course your wife will be there with her biro as well, contributing – you are in this new schedule together. The marriage and business partnership itself should be polished, finished, preserved by Christmas – in writing – so that you two protect yourselves against quite a demanding year for the actual relationship in 2022. From 2023, though, if you both agree, you could become a power couple. There is lots going on here. Deep breath.

  8. Hi Jessica I have a my ascendant at 28% in leo-cap sun in 5th and 12th House in Leo 1°25’42 -3 planet stellium in Aquarius ( decedent-6th house-along with my venus and moon in Aquarius ) wanting to change career into something creative-move house and improve finances for the better but everything seems to come to a road block or be stacked against me .Will this change?As feel like things are never going to improve?

    1. You are a Sun Capricorn who is experiencing Sixth House (work) issues in both chart systems. In your natal or birth chart, you have transiting Pluto in your Tenth House of career, in the sign of Capricorn. This tallies with the North Node transiting in Gemini in your Sixth House of work ethic. This story ends neatly in January 2022. For now, you have to explore the reality of ambition, against sheer hard work. Yet, the hard work is tied to your health. The Sixth House is about physical fitness and mental health. You are trying to do this in a pandemic so be kind to yourself. The road blocks end in January. Until then you need to reshape your daily routine, lifestyle and the tiny details of housework, work, self-care, fitness, food, drink, any medication, healing and so on. This is the ideal time to do it. You have about five or six months, long enough for absolute focus on your skills, talents and abilities. Creativity is 99% perspiration as I am sure you know.

  9. So happy Leo season is finally here! I’ve been getting quite a few good freelance jobs lately which is very good for me financially. Do you see anything in my chart that tells me if I will receive more support from others or even getting money from investors to start my own business? As a Leo, I tend to do things on my own and it’s not easy. I have begun to change my mindset and be more open to getting any kind of help from others. I also want to find a new love relationship that encourages and fully support my career choices which I’m not getting in my current relationship.

    1. You will make or save quite a lot of money after Christmas, if you focus on 2022 as the year to pursue abundance. There may be cash in kind (for example, you are given access to a car) or there may be actual rewards, like a large lump sum. Jupiter and Neptune in Pisces in your Eighth House suggests a rich stream of income. In your natal chart, never mind your Leo chart, we look to Taurus and Scorpio, and your Second House and Eighth House, for opportunities. Jupiter will trine your Scorpio factors and sextile your Taurus factors between the very end of 2021 and most of 2022, so you are in luck there as well. Not everyone fails in a pandemic; some people do very nicely and you are one of them. You also want a new lover who supports your career. Go for counselling with this one, by December, if you can, to see an attitude change. If you still don’t get what you want, yes, you have an opportunity to find a new partner by Christmas, but I am duty bound to tell you that this person would be extremely heavy going in 2022 and almost like a full-time job from 2023 so take care with your choices.

  10. Dear Jessica
    Thank you so much for your precious insights.
    I’ve been through three very tough years. Don’t even know how I could even manage it.
    As a consequence of this and of the emergency we are all living, I’m feeling very lonely and, at times, I have to fight depression.
    The only light/hope in this landscape is a special man I met years ago who, for me at least, is slowly becoming more than a friend, after years of solitude.
    He too has been though personal times (a second diveorce..) and maybe for this reason he seem very ‘controlled’ even if from time to time he cannot hide sincere affection.
    Unfortunately he does not live in my town and considering the limitations due to Covid, I don’t have a chance to see him often.
    I would like to know if, after the burden of recent years, I can dream of a duet, as you frequently call it.
    I think I would live it as a miracle in case. But I must confess, after reading your birthday forecast, I don’t expect a great year ahead.
    Thank you, I wish you all the best for your life and your wishes.

    1. Thank you. You are strongly Virgo and Sixth House dominant, and depression is common. Why? Because the mind rules the body (Mercury is about the mind and the ruler of Virgo) and yet the body can control the mind. This is a loop. The pandemic has delivered depression because our bodies have been cut off from endorphins, oxytocin, serotonin and dopamine. As an immediate fix, please use the Paul McKenna hypnosis channel on YouTube which will channel at least some of those brain chemicals your way. He is easily the world’s most successful hypnotherapist and has generously donated his audiobooks there. As a longer question, how about this twice-divorced man? He lives far away and the pandemic stops you from being together. He is a possibility for you but there are others. Daydreaming about him can be nice. In the real world, though, you have been offered a couple of duets, and not necessarily about love or sex. Who is the other person who suggested you two work on something, or do something together? He or she may have been lost in the pandemic but you may want to go back there. If you do, try to complete the mutual goal by Christmas. It’s terribly important that you go for ‘two’ in August-December and make it short term if you can, at least in the context of this being a partnership or double act. The reason for that, astrologically, is that in 2022 it will be such hard work. You could persist with this man, for example, and find luck on your side until Christmas, but next year would be really tough and from 2023 also rather intense. Having said that, if you convert someone who was a partner, or other half, into quite another sort of companion – you escape that. The astrological prescription here would be one or more duets, of any type at all, by December. Then, in 2022, less focus on ‘we two’ and far more focus on that person as – one of many you co-operate with on a project; a face in the wider family circle or household; someone to work with on your health or fitness in a bigger group; a purely financial collaborator; a professional ally – you keep the person and lose the hard work. Of course, everyone has to choose her destiny. You may want this man above all others, be prepared for the Saturn tasks of 2022 and even the Pluto transformation from 2023. Some women do want the full, demanding, mini-series! Beyond that though there is at least one duet waiting for you and it may be with another woman. Or a man in a platonic context. It’s in front of you now. As for the Virgo side of your chart, you absolutely need to understand it, in some detail, and rather than assume the solution for depression is a husband, dig very deeply indeed for the latest information on the Mind-Body-Spirit connection and pursue answers. With Virgo it is usually the tiny things that have a massive impact and so your depression may be helped by a small pill (ask your doctor if you have not already done so) or even the removal of a small but important toxin (for example, cigarettes, if you do smoke at all). You are in a stunning position to fix your depression with trines to your Virgo stellium for some time.

  11. thank you so much-your spot on as doing 2 jobs and both key worker role so never stopped during the pandemic, Its all been about work, work work and often doing double shifts due to pingdemic to cover others to help out and as work isn’t easy at the minute . Thank you so very much for the reply – I really appreciate your time shellyn

    1. I am glad the prediction for you is spot on. Shellyn you will not work two jobs forever. I know you have been working really hard as I can see it in your chart. You will change your lifestyle and work priorities in 2021. There will be another career for you if you want it. It’s very new, very unfamiliar, and yet people will appear who can help you. This will be in place by 2023 and you’ll find it so exciting.

  12. Happy birthday Jessica! I would appreciate any insights you can provide. Life seems to have gone stagnant and stale, with nothing seeming exciting. Perhaps the effect of the pandemic.

    1. Thank you! You will be offered a duet or double-act with someone important by Christmas. In fact he or she may already be there. Try to set a goal together and finish it by December for the best results. Do not let your double goal linger into 2022.

  13. Hi Jessica, thanks for this post. I had been waiting for this since I knew about you. It does gives insights to my life. I have been having trouble in my studies. It’s just I haven’t found any thing I can stick to. It’s so frustrating not knowing your future job for which I could prepare today with education you know.

    1. It will work out with study but you may change your mind a couple more times before you find something that excites you. You also need to give yourself the freedom to have one, two, three or more sidelines. The future for you may not necessarily be one job and one career. In fact by 2026 it is likely that you will surprise yourself and other people by doing something quite, quite different. You will realise there is a gap in the market to fill and as the world keeps changing through the pandemic (which does not go away) you will find a niche to fill that was not there before. I am sure you have seen how some people have done really well from Zoom education – that is just one example. You will also study outside this current course, and enjoy it. It may not even cost you, or it may be part-time. What you end up doing will pick you up and sweep you away very quickly and be tremendously exhilarating for you.

  14. Hi Jessica, you recently wrote about China and the virus and found it interest and wanted to pull on this thread some more.

    I wanted to specifically find out what is referred to the current Chinese “crackdown” is really things yet to come. The Chinese government is cracking down on the regulatory front on its own companies, especially companies in Hong Kong and companies listed in the U.S. I think the world is underestimating what Chinese government is systematically doing and the crack down may lead to their and world markets to crack. Meaning not only stock prices lower, but exports from China being reduced materially or alright stopped. If China says no to Apple manufacturing – that would get the world’s attention quickly.

    Also, it feels that China knows that all roads lead them on the virus origin and how it was man-made. If so, they would be exposed on a world scale and won’t be able to handle the fallout let to come (especially if the virus continues to grow and mutilate indefinitely). Also the Hong Kong and Taiwan sovereignty is making them overreact and potentially lead to military action(s) . Causing China’s Xi looking like he is unhinged and seemingly bully-like. Just like Trump was in the U.S. and to the world.

    Any thoughts on what comes would help us prepare for what is likely yet to come in 2021. Thanks

    1. We are living in the Uranus in Taurus cycle until 2026 and we are barely a quarter of the way through, and have already seen what it can do to the world economy. Mass consumption is over and that turns China upside-down by 2026. I agree, if Apple was hit, that would get the world’s attention. China is the supplier of a mass consumption, disposable world economy and as Uranus is always a radical change and revolution, that will come. A global boycott against her, should there be evidence that COVID-19 was deliberately manufactured in China, would be one reason for this. The penalty for bioterrorism would be a shutdown on trade, as you say. We then have Hong Kong and Taiwan to consider. The system ends in 2023. The years 2021, 2022, 2023 are the last dying (literally dying) years of Made In China and the old borrowed money, shopping centre, petrol/gas economy. Uranus tends to be about shock, though. So what comes is a total and rapid shock, for the world. China shows that Uranus transit shakes her to her very foundations. But rest assured – the planet will look after herself, as Mother Nature always does.

  15. I have leo as ascendant and scorpio sun and moon. So, I tend to look at both scorpio and Leo horoscopes. I have the most activety in 7th and 10tg house. What does my career and love life look like?

    1. Don’t read Leo for Leo Ascendant on this website, as my system does not work that way. It’s far more accurate for you to read Scorpio Sun predictions and that birthday report will appear in October. Thank you.

  16. Dear Jessica,
    Thank you for helping us to prepare for the future and giving us hope in the process!
    I want to say big “thank you” for the strength you gave me while passing through a very tough period of my life. I am still recovering from the loss of my mother in 2019 and the difficulty’s I faced in my business in 2017,-18,-19…
    What should I expect in the coming years? Will a calmer time comes finally?
    Happy birthday season to you, too! Wishing you a lot of happiness and many, many blessings ❣️

    1. Thank you so much. I’m sorry you lost your mother to spirit so recently. I am glad the astrology helped. Your business difficulties are ancient history from Christmas and in fact by Easter you will have saved or made a small fortune. Your career will change quite radically by 2026 as you add a totally different profession to the existing one, with great excitement – or you alter the one you have. You will want to do it your way; to invent; to experiment; to innovate – and you will find that falls into place in 2021, 2022, 2023. One or more duets will come your way over the next few years. Some will be work. Others will be sexual. Some will be neither, but very much about ‘the two of us’. Take your time with each one and if you think you need a second pair of eyes on any paperwork, do see an expert. None of these duets will be a walk in the park, but all will be profound, deep, transformative and crucial to your growth. The trick is to avoid any issues, but that is why astrology is so useful. You should have any contracts or other formal agreements fully checked, and do get everything in writing too.

  17. Hey Jessica,
    Happy Birthday to you too and thankyou for all your wonderful insights. I was born 3rd August 1981 1208pm in Ballarat Victoria and have lived in Adelaide South Australia for many years now. I am turning the big 40 shortly (I feel 38 not 40 haha), I have been single for many years and wanted to ask you more about Love Relationship opportunities in the coming 12 months…..
    I have a Sag friend (born 1/12/70) and we both enjoy each others company, however, he isnt ready for a relationship. Your insight would be so very appreciated.
    Thankyou very much

    1. Thank you, Melinda. And happy birthday for your 40th, up ahead. You want a boyfriend, partner or husband. Your chances are highest between now and Christmas, and you may be able to turn your friend into a lover, but if not, there will be a second person who can form one half of a duet with you. Just be aware that if you do aim for a classical partnership, 2022 will be very hard work indeed, and from 2023, if you two are together, you will realise that this isn’t ‘just’ a relationship, or even ‘just’ a marriage, it is all-consuming, intense, and will frequently take over your life. So, Melinda, you may want to go very slowly and carefully into anything new that is about ‘two.’ If you were to switch the focus away from duets and into a more independent relationship, it would be less of an ask. Then again, you may be ready for such an ask. It is also possible that a former boyfriend will re-enter your life, for whatever reason, over the next few years.

  18. Hello Jessica, thank you for your excellent and insightful knowledge; I am learning and gaining more fine-tuned information about who I am. That may seem odd, however, I feel as something huge has shifted and snowballed down a mountain within me especially since about 2010. I just graduated from college and I am not sure if I look to start a career. I have been a mostly stay at home mother to six children for 30 years and we moved about 10 times due to my husband’s career. To be brief, I believe we are planning a divorce either to start the end of August or Christmastime. I will be driving our youngest to school about 50 minutes away assuming we go back to in-person class in September. My mother is also trying to downsize and sell her home two states away and she wants to move here and live with me (I am her only child and both my father and stepfather have passed away). I am not sure what to focus on next now that I have my BA degree. Do I focus on divorce transition, helping my mom to downsize and move again, help my children acclimate back to school, find work, go back for a Master’s degree, or get ready to move? I don’t even know about dating again and when I will be able to be available for another person. I feel frankly overwhelmed and yet hopeful that I will learn what is next. I am sincerely thankful for every day I wake up; I am not sure how to re-craft the second act of my life. There is so much to take in and learn and live.

    1. You have been a mother to six children and divorce is calling you. You are now a Bachelor of Arts (congratulations) but your mother also needs you, even though your MA is calling you from the future. There is a lot going on and you are also wondering about dating. The biggest priority should be a new career. Have a plan for 2021-2026 (the five year plan) and give yourself enough time, space and funding to pursue what enables you to lead a more independent and exciting life. In fact, the years 2021, 2022 and part of 2023 will reshape your work and your lifestyle in a powerful and lasting way. Incorporating fitness or exercise into that new way of life is really important, if you are not already doing that. You are divorcing at the best possible time; try to finalise by Christmas at the very latest. You may want to minimise the role of your ex-husband in your life as much as you can, to make life simple in 2022, 2023 and beyond. Try to avoid falling into any kind of duet or partnership with him, even if it is just for the sake of the children, as otherwise you will be very stretched, when you don’t need to be. I heard the word ‘sacrifice’ for you. You will know what that means. The situation with your mother is karmic in nature and you owe her, and she owes you. So do other family members, actually, and the karma will complete in 2022, 2023 – after that the soul debts and credits have been paid off and one situation will end, as any chapter does. From 2023 and onwards you may find yourself in a potential power couple marriage or new partnership where the two of you are a double dynamo, but only if you can both sort out how to share the reins. As I said, long-term the story is your success, ambition, position and mission. You will innovate and invent in your chosen field and perhaps one other and use new technology and new inventions to succeed.

  19. Thanks a lot Jessica for your response. Actually I’m looking for a new job and we may have to move to another country sometimes. Maybe the changes in May 2021 are related to it and we may have to adjust ourself with my wife. Do you see change in my job in the first part of 2021?

    1. You’ll have to make a fork-in-the-road choice about employment and career from late November to late December and this pulls in both home and work – so if you need to emigrate to do that – it will be obvious by Christmas. From early January a stuck and repetitive situation affecting your professional life and your house/apartment situation will stop. So it’s really the end of 2020, start of 2021. The choices are yours.

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