An aggrieved person who has a headache from the stress of group opinion outside him or against him (or who is a headache for the rest of them) is separated, alone, and on the fringe. There is healing to be done here. There may even be real injury. This is Sir Winston Churchill during The Wilderness Years. There is potential for everyone to come back together again, or just for co-operation and recovery, but it will take hard work, communication and time passing.